“When I grow up, I want to be a saleswoman!” …
said no kid, ever.
When you were a kid, if you are female, did you
think, “When I grow up I want to be a salesperson?” Probably not. You
might have thought about going into business, but not into sales.
Sales wasn’t sexy, it was skeezy and it certainly
didn’t speak to me as a teenage girl.
The problem is, it should have.
We were always driven by success in numbers —
points scored, dollars earned, miles travelled.
Unfortunately, the sales profession is treated with
disdain, and salespeople are often dehumanized, in media and popular culture.
This widespread portrayal is not just inaccurate
and unfair – it discourages fantastic would-be salespeople, male and female
alike.
Assumptions we normally see in a sales team
and the misconception created is "Female applicants see a team of men –
and they don’t want to join." though it is just a mere excuse we generally
hear from the hiring team as well as the woman who don't want to join sales.
Selling is all about …Guiding the prospect or client to understand and see beyond
their initial perceived value of what you offer so that they will instead
realize that you what you have is the answer to what they are experiencing and
need to tackle. Position your value in terms of where they want to take their
business, and also in terms of profit and loss. Qualifying the
prospect or opportunity through a strong value statement since it
will help to sort out those people who just aren’t interested, have no need or
no ability to buy. Creating a sense of urgency within
the client’s mind and connecting them to that emotionally so they seek help now
rather than later.Owning your own authentic voice yet
creating and presenting it using the language of your customer and also, if
applicable, your company. Discovering the needs of your
prospect or client, and aligning your value statement with what the client must
resolve. Presenting benefits that shift negatives, e.g.
pain points, the client faces to positive outcomes. If possible, include
value-added services that are not as apparent in what they first see or hear
about what you offer. Understanding the culture of both
the company that you represent and the company or person that you are selling
to. Awareness of what is important or critical to each should be clear in how
you position the value you bring to the sale, both in terms of yourself and
your product or service. Establishing a trusted partnership with
the prospect or client and doing so through consistent and relevant engagement,
both online and in person (if possible). Telling your story with
your entire self, i.e. mind and body. Genuine regard for and interest in the
prospect or client is shown through your words, your body movements, and your
voice. Having a process for obtaining feedback. It is good
to create a value statement and then ask someone else to listen to it and
verify if you are authentically and clearly stating what you do and why, how
you do it and for whom. It is best to do this type of verification with someone
not in your industry or company. Also, ask your clients for feedback! and REPEAT!!


Sales departments are especially prone to
inadvertently alienate female job-seekers just by failing to vet a job
description for words like “killer,” “crushing it,” “rock star,” “he,” “his,”
or even phrases like, “long working hours" adding this statement
discourages woman and their concerned families to take it as profession.
Though, on the other side present generation to get
over old trend are more enthusiastic to take up new challenges.
A woman in sales at times take a whole new view of
getting the sales done.
Woman have a strong socializing skills and can
engage themselves with others particularly clients,
managers and other senior women in customer firms. This helps to build a
broader base through relationships outside of the office.
Most sales woman have complained
of pushed down in company so it is suggested to build healthy relationships with
advocates, create a strong personal brand, establish guidelines before each
project, position themselves as experts in their field, and communicate with
confidence.
Basically to image themselves so strong that people
will think twice to compete or look down as a woman.
A common myth that a male
colleague will always tell is woman are good "entertainers" to male
clients and mostly when a woman is standing at the door people generally don’t say no.
At times woman are really in dilemma how to deal with these type of situations
where a client misbehaves or communicates with a woman in a very sneaky
way, offering meetings only at night and many more. Though, these stuffs is bit
awkward to be shared off, but yes it totally depends how we deal with the
situations or how trick fully you can extract your business. Most importantly a
woman in an organization should be free to discuss this with and take opinions
on it.
On the other hand, woman is good
at keeping people engaged which is very important for sales.
A sales woman is known for more
"hysterical" rather to be told of "passionate" but again
there is punch in their behaviour they are mostly calm and soft spoken with a
punch in their words.
Although, young girls, we were taught not to brag.
It was a behaviour perceived as boastful and improper. This behaviour is most
noticeable in networking and professional development. Women believe their
accomplishments should speak for themselves, and many are hesitant to discuss
things such as their education and reputation, erring on the side of modesty.
Therefore, when a more senior position opens up, they assume they will be
considered based on their accomplishments and credentials, despite having been
reluctant to voice them.
While modestly is an admirable trait outside of the
workplace, it is foolish in the professional world.
Konrath compares it to the tree falling in the
forest: “If no one knows about your accomplishments, they don’t exist.”
An organization's work doesn't end
after hiring a woman in sales.
When a woman joins a sales team there are different
questions that arises in mind:
- How
to build my credibility in my company and in the industry?
- How
do I know if I’m being paid properly?
- How
do I determine what to spend my time on?
- How
do I optimize my career path?
- Should
I move into management or grow as an individual sales professional?
- How
can I become a better sales manager and grow people?
- How
to engage at events?
- How
to best communicate upwards?
- How
do I get to the next level and stay there?
- How
do I brand myself?
- How
much responsibility should I take?
- How
to get better at negotiation skills because if you don’t ask, you don’t
get?
- How
to build confidence that I can ask for things and not be afraid?
- How
to work with men or women that are older than me?
- How
much should I socialize at work?
All the answers to the question lies on the environment that is set by
the company by the image since the time of her interview to the date she joined
and whom they are joining with.
By creating and
nurturing a work environment conducive to open communication, fairness, and the
reduction of implicit bias is one of the most difficult changes to implement,
especially for companies lagging behind the diversity movement. To begin
developing connections unhampered by gender stereotypes throughout departments,
start by completely opening the line of communication between managers and
employees.
Your employees should always feel as if they
have a safe space where they can talk about
things that negatively impact their ability to meet or exceed their performance
expectations without feeling uncomfortable or intimidated.
Winning the fight for female sales talent requires
more than an attractive initiative. It takes deep insight and recognition of
workplace diversity as the new symbol of 21st-century business success, along
with a willingness to adapt to a rapidly-evolving sense of the global
community.
Major challenge a woman faces is overcoming their perfectionism and at
times ending up into tremendous nervousness. Women tend to be perfectionists.
We don’t want to let anyone down—including ourselves. Above all, we don’t want
to look foolish. As a result, many women in sales tend to play it safe. They
pitch the safe pitch. They use the same tried and true ideas because they know
that they work.
Another, amazing quality a woman possesses
being in a sales team is when all your guy colleagues are discussing sports
which you have no idea off. To fit in the group either speak something of their
interest or just simply change the discussion and the whole group will mould to
it without the second thought and you fit in.
Concluding, Are women better at sales? Is there any
substantial evidence that points to this conclusion? As with success in any
industry, it comes down to the individual. If it is true that women are more
attentive, better listeners, more inclined to prospect, and have more
opportunities for advancement that do men, then women should have an advantage
over men in the sales industry.
But like any advantage, if the advantage is not
used, then it ceases being an advantage at all.
“SELL YOURSELF BEFORE SELLING YOUR PRODUCT”