Speak Through Your Eyes

What is the first thing that attracts you in a person?

First thing that attracts me in a person is their eyes. As, a keen observer it always attracts me whenever I meet a person.
People say that the eyes are a “window to the soul” - that they can tell us much about a person just by gazing into them.
Look into your friend’s eyes while you are speaking and observe the pupil your half the conversation will be done.
Did you ever noticed whenever you are speaking to a particular person their pupils get dilated always?
If you find the other person is having a dilated pupil or widening their eyes while speaking or listening to you. It is a major signal whether they are interested in what you are is saying. Pupils will dilate and continue to dilate if the person is interested in the topic. However, not only the conversation it also signifies that a person got interested in talking to you or not. Simultaneously, when talking to the clients and customers looking at their pupil we can make out whether they find it exciting or interesting if not then that's a time we should change the topic and tell something of their interest.
Many a time's pupil also dilate when there is a shock or but contracts simultaneously as they recover their shock, but that dilation lasts for long.

Similarly, pupils contract when they are least interested to talk to you and will try to avoid by blinking or rubbing eyes.
Taking this as an advantage advertiser almost always widen the pupils of women in their ads because it makes their product look arousing and welcoming, so in many beauty apps we find a special feature for widening pretty eyes.
It's just not to make you feel beautiful, it is a game of human psychology. Mostly, you will also observe that those pictures in social media is liked by many.
However, since our childhood we have all learn about the eye directions let see again the meaning of it:
Looking to Their Right symbolizes auditory thought (Remembering a conversation)
Looking to Their Left symbolizes visual thought (Remembering the face of a person)
Looking Down to Their Right symbolizes someone creates a feeling or sensory memory. (Day dreaming which never comes true)
Looking Down to Their Left symbolizes someone talk to themselves (which we always do).
Most insecure activity people I don't like personally is when the other person starts gazing.
Gazing is to look steadily and intently at something, especially at that which excites admiration, curiosity, or interest. It was found that people gaze more at the eyes of the people they like. While normal people would look in your eye for some time then shift their gaze away each few seconds a person who likes you will keep looking into your eyes for longer periods of time.
However, in print media it is being observed that when the model's gaze was directed at the product, participants spent longer looking at the product, the brand logo and the rest of the advertisement compared to when the model's gaze was directed towards the viewer.
Although, it is always being a big controversy among people between the asymmetry between male gaze and female gaze.
Gazing can be an intimate activity. In fact, if you disagree with a superior, you can show disagreement by holding your gaze for a bit longer than normal.
There are three types of gazing:
1. Social Gazing – This is a triangle from the eyes to the mouth. It is non-aggressive and shows comfort.
2. Intimate Gazing – If you want to be intimate with someone, you want to look from their eyes to their mouth and lower to the body. If someone is doing this to you, it usually means they are having intimate thoughts about you.
3. Power Gazing – This is a triangle between the eyes and the forehead. It avoids the intimate areas of the mouth and body completely.
However, it is also common to blink a lot when we interact with someone we like or when we are thinking about many things at the same time. Therefore, when reading emotions through someone’s eyes, it is important to focus on the context or the conversation that is going on at the same time.
However, on our daily life we have people around us who wants to see us laughing that's why they will give you a quick look after they say anything funny just to make sure that you are laughing or that his joke appealed to you.
Let's not waste our time peeping at our mobiles every second rather start looking at opposite person's eyes half of our conversation will be done.

Sometimes, our eyes speak louder than our words and it cannot be controlled.